When we got married we said we didn't want to have any kids until after we had been married for five years. Well that was in July. So now we are trying to make the call.
I'm posting this here not to ask for advice (opinions are ok though), but mostly to ask for prayer and wisdom. We don't want to make this decision lightly. It can't really be based on a list of pros and cons. We're trying to seek God's will for our life and for our marriage.